Conquering Chaos

Is your social calendar filling up faster than you can say Barbecue? Have you been trying to figure out how you are going to fulfill all your family, career and social obligations without running yourself ragged? Well, you are not alone.

In the month of May, I don't have one weekend day without an obligation that takes me away from home. And that doesn't include all the weekday evening additions to my calendar that keep me busy. So, how do you get everything accomplished without making yourself crazy? Here are some suggestions:

Utilize the KISS philosophy - Keep It Simple Stupid.

Use a crock pot or take a page from Rachel Ray's 30 minute meals to provide simple yet nourishing dinners for your family.

Make a list - keep your planner handy and use lists to make sure that you have everything overed.

Take advantage of the Internet for shopping. Gift cards are another way to simplify.

Car pool whenever you can. Have parents alternate driving obligations to games, parties and sporting events.

Limit your participation - it is okay to say NO when you really don't have the time or desire to attend.

I recently received invitations to 2 weddings on the same day and accepted the invitation that I received first. When bridal shower invitations arrived for both brides, I chose to attend the shower for the bride whose wedding I was NOT attending, so I was able to participate in each in some fashion.

Bridal shower gifts were ordered, wrapped and delivered by using the gift registry on line. I will do the same with wedding gifts.

Take time to decompress. Book a massage or a pedicure or play a round of golf. Make sure that your wardrobe is cleaned and pressed and that your shoes are shined. Buy a few bottles of wine to bring as hostess gifts. Keep a few items in your pantry so you can throw together a simple appetizer, dip or dessert for that covered dish party.

Organization is the key. Just spending a few minutes each day to check your list, to make a quick phone call or to ask for help will make the difference between being frustrated and having fun.